给我亲爱的猪弟弟

December 14th, 2008 by lovemlien

礼服选好了吗?小红ribbon买到了吗?开始紧张了吧~  你可是当天最“威水” 的重头人物ner…

告诉你哦~ 我帮你向你的未来姐夫挖到好料给你ner,你一定会喜欢也会super满意的。

老人家都在为了这喜事忙shopping了。你也要帮我准备我的嫁妆hor…

希望你平安到家!

You ok to prepare a speech on my wedding day to show your gratitude toward an elder sister of you who taking care since? :P
给各位朋友,帮帮忙到我的wedding website : 我的结婚网站 sign-off and 签到。不为什么,只要你是我的朋友,就好心投我一票,我可是跟流汗王拼了…这次,如果输了(以朋友sign-off的位数的多寡)就要做整一个月的家务ner! 我是一万个不想当勤劳的maid。Tolong啊~

坏女人

December 5th, 2008 by lovemlien

她是无所不在,真的!任我挥不之散不去,好想用上史上最毒最强的魔咒把她变到其他星球去。我想,非常想,让她消失不见!

我知道自己或许不是个好女人,也知道酱批评人家是不好的。可是,她,真的是无所不在!虽然声名远扬,却恶名昭彰。她是天使脸魔鬼身材,男人想把她当宠物,女人把她怪物的人。啊~ 是的,她是性感尤物,男人争着捧上天的女王。这些,绝对是我发自内心的欣赏,我是一万分地认同而不是嫉妒。我不需要妒忌她所拥有的一切,因为我知道上天是公平的,everything is not perfect。

她是众多女人嘴里的坏女人,我原先没头没尾地也不知道缘由。可想告知她的,我想你很enjoy在别人背后讲坏话,这并没有什么不好。可是,如果你能再勇敢点,站出来,在光天化日下对证,那更能显出你的英勇!别再做长舌妇了,后果可是要下地狱割舌头的。

坏女人,God has eyes。你或许得到怜悯,可是那都是别人的施舍,别在自欺欺人了,那样的生活一点都不好玩。你若把朋友当敌人,肆意散播污蔑他人,总有一天,一定会得到惩罚的。将心比心,每个人都没有恶意亏待你,但你却肆无忌地重伤他人,这又是何苦呢?我不明白,却很想帮你…没有想要你发下屠刀,可是你那爱说别人坏话的习惯真的要不得。

珍惜一切,虽然没有拥有。别老是怨别人对你不好,但时时审视自己是否真心待人。你会活得更美,如果你能得到别人的祝福。珍惜一切,虽然没有拥有。

你真行!

November 13th, 2008 by lovemlien

传闻中你是银行界的佼佼者,我还有点质疑。今天跟你擦肩而过,交过手才相信传闻的属实。在下,真的是佩服得五体投地。

真的,打从心底欣赏你。这不是妒忌,而是由衷地钦佩你的办事效率!真的不愧是传说中会唱歌跳舞的女人,什么都难不倒你,会说会讲,好话当坏话讲,黑的当白的讲;做事干活,领功论劳,你排第二,没有敢跟你争第一。

得承认自己是菜鸟,莽莽撞撞的新手,虽然到目前为止没有碰过拔不掉的钉子,但跟前辈过招还不能见招拆招,从容应对。我是个很容易被人摸清底细的人,不懂得隐藏自己,容易被人看穿,所以在还没有出招前,往往被人摆来摆去都不知道。:’( 现在突然好想学伪装术哦~

真的希望我的努力不会白费,希望有眼睛的人都能看到我的贡献,希望有梦想的人都会因梦想而伟大!

希望一切能如愿以偿。

说走就走

October 31st, 2008 by lovemlien

习惯在星期六起床打扫房间,梳洗完,就是要立刻马上地把房间里里外外用吸尘机彻底清洁才甘愿。一,因为只有星期六有时间。二则,借着打扫房间把自己的思绪理清,好让自己能舒舒服服地享受散漫的周末!

我是个理性的感性人,是个爱哭鬼,很容易为了小小的激动而掉泪。Sigh…这个习惯真的非得改掉不可。酱老了还老爱在众人面前哭,真的是不知害臊!郭尚宫在汇丰的最后的一个星期,聚会特别多,跟她和几个前辈吃饭叙别,farewell dinner, farewell party…就一直很伤感。伤心到不行,是不舍得,六支枪的一走了之就算了,就连你这个千年人参也要走,离开是因为老板,还是公司?! 我在汇丰还有明天吗?!你们都是我的好玩伴,没有你们就没有开心的我了… :’(

虽说人有不散之筵席, 但是我们没法说想吃饭就一起吃饭,想喝茶就一起喝茶,想说老板坏话就用Lnote,打759,755,753,752…号码依旧,但坐在那里的人已经不是你了。 我是被被他们弄哭的,爱玩爱闹的你们也有那么贴心的一面。除了感动还是感动, 丽子的2005 video presentation真的是精心准备,平时与你没有交集的人却为你精心策划,耗时耗力,灵魂舞者的“说走就走”, 是在唱说你的罪行,这样一走了之,让你9个team members成了无头苍蝇,蔡依林无时无刻为你递水送纸巾的,他们两个正如你所说的,是你最忠诚于你,为你提供劲爆的线人。Ruler真的就是来砸场的!只是一直听到他说:“又哭了啊~ 地上都一滩水了,要叫waiter来抹地了。”

想对你说的,应该有三匹布酱长。就让一切尽在不言中吧…(是不想在这里报料,等下很快我们所有的秘密就被发财猪讲出去了。)送你的farewell gift,你可能不喜欢,可我们是“对你的爱都永不变,爱你的心永追随你。” 你应该感到庆幸,发财猪没有insist也不记得叫你脱裙子跑molek一圈。那已经是最好的礼物了,不是吗?! 哈哈

要记得为我铺路,帮我create market value哦~

给阿小的一封信

October 26th, 2008 by lovemlien

听到你决定飘洋过海的计划,久久反应不过来。以后的周末,很难有机会一起shopping了。真的不舍得…

你是我酱多朋友当中,最果断的一个。做决定一向都有自己的原则,有自己一套的独立宣言。让我由衷地欣赏,也暗自庆幸有你酱的一个好朋友,从不需要我来操心。你可能不知道,你是我众多朋友当中,人不可貌相的一个。左看,右看,外表看到的,和我认识的很截然不同。我想,这也有只有跟你熟络的朋友才能真正认知的。我认识的你,讲义气,重友情,独立也不私心。刚毅的心都是浓浓的 “不到终点绝不死心” 的勇气,这是你与众不同的地方吧~

怀念求学时交换心情的笔记,打工后周末的shopping乐,一起K书拼考试的日子。不是说好毕业后要一起赚钱,一起花钱的吗?哪里可以丢下我自己去赚那一桶金哦…朋友出门在外要照顾自己,凡事小心警惕,我有时间一定会去找你玩的。

要加油哦,阿小!.^_^.

I get promoted!

October 11th, 2008 by lovemlien

Finally….

and TODAY, 11 October 2008 is the day! I’m being promoted…witnessed by my parents, my family members and friends. That today is the day…

Please referred to the enclosed link the newly appointed Mrs Ng for the announcement.

Goodbye,my dear friend!

September 25th, 2008 by lovemlien

It seem ages, but it has been more than 2 years time working with you. You indeed surprised me by announcing that you have tendered your resignation at our favorite mamak stall that day. Shocking news!

Still able to recall the moment when I find out that you were my primary schoolmate during our first meeting in HSBC. Gosh…this is a God blessing, don’t you think so? It’s fate that we get to meet each other since we left primary school 20 years ago. A very coincidence that I will never ever forget. Bet you can’t imagined how happy am I to know that you will be my colleague that time, I informed every of my primary schoolmate friends about the coincidence immediately after the meeting. I even announced to my parents on the dinner of the meeting day. :P

Times wait no man. Ever since RotiSuperman left us, we still get to work and having fun together. Our monthly celebration, having gossip around the corner, exchanging notes chain…etc Hope that this activity will still carry on even though you will not be able to use the same server as we were.

Thank you my dear friend for being my “walking dictionary” for the passed year, thank you for covering me during the ON-Brand workshops, thank you for being my office assistant every time I needed you. I have nothing to give you but a song that I would like to dedicated to you

That\’s What Friends Are For

I shouldn’t have reviewed here, but the “Congratulation Song” Fred mentioned inevitably keep popping up in my mind while writing this blog. A very sweet memories we have had in the island. A childish but relishing rumor they have created…:P Just let it be a secret in between us, ok?!

All my best to you my dear friend, may you have nothing to worry on on your next challenge but abundance of good luck and auspicious person around you. Keep in touch and don’t forget us if you happen to become the CEO in the future day.

Take care and good bye.

一个人的星期天

September 21st, 2008 by lovemlien

觉得好可怜哦~

老爸都觉得我奇怪,美美的星期天竟然足不出户。成天窝在房里对着电脑,老是念我耗电量是全家之冠,又唠叨着我的近视一定加深。家有一老,如有一宝。-_-III

好颓废,要不是那个不负责任的course cordinator没有把这module的lecture notes准备好,我现在一定很努力地在k书。也不会沦落到现在这样的下场 — 午觉睡了又睡,就是没事做!啊~~真的是好无聊!都是我不好,未婚夫跟人家跑了!是跟人家跑了啦!是哪们家的狐狸精,我到现在还没能查清楚。因为至目前为止,电话也没有一通,我想是逍遥快活去了。High过头,也忘记我这个未婚妻了。:’( 有谁会可怜我…

寂寞的星期天,好朋友一个要飞香港没空陪我玩,一个又吵着要陪男朋友!原来,在忙的很烦的也不只是我一个人。是怎样哦,人缘真的酱不好吗?为什么都不找我去逛街走走,今天的我真的闷得快发疯了!

我想这篇blog会是我写得最烂的一篇。内容空洞,纯属发牢骚!是啊,好委屈,未婚夫跟人家跑了,找不到出气筒,一肚子闷气!我难道不该生气吗? 被遗弃的未婚妻难道就要任人摆布,唯唯诺诺的,有苦自己吞…

好悲伤的星期天。一起哀悼一秒吧~ 希望死了的星期天,能早日投胎转世,不要再对我痴痴缠,下个星期,我要一个快乐的星期天!

Work-life Balance

September 12th, 2008 by lovemlien

I find most of my colleagues struggling with their workload and personal life. Am I achieving my work-life balance goal? Arghh…sad to say am struggling too…the reason am one of them because I was being cursed of not finishing my work because of those guys! People who poor in time-management, yum-cha, taking long hours lunch time, chit-chatting during working hour…etc unable to complete their own work and drag my precious time to assist them to finish their works! It’s kind of frustrating though…

Working life becomes tougher…workload increased and nobody can share the burden with me. Been working liked a non-stop machine except lunch hour and loo time. Dare not to spend full one hour to take lunch nowadays, or my desk will piled up with works that marked “important & urgent”.

I just can’t figure out where you all got to find so many “important & urgent” request every times, many times. Your every request seem extremely urgent and important and it need to prioritize your request before others, but everyone request is at same “important & urgent” as yours, what should I do then? I can only attend to one request at one time though I wish that I can attend everyone request in a time! But, what to do? God only grant me two hands.

Achieving work-life balance is that oneself get to maximize their working hour to perform their duty/responsible effectively. In another word, complete your work instruction accurately before your knock-off time. It is as simple as being focus and determines to clear your work mission timely and efficiently.

To my dearest colleague, I wish to knock-off on time and have my own sweet time reading newspapers, dining with my old parents but not staying up late in the office to finish the request that you “inevitably” marked it as “important & urgent”. I’m under stressed now, that’s why you can’t see me smiling but with sour faces all the times. My blood pressure gonna increase if you keep pushing your own work to me…please be independent and think of every aspect, angle before you come to me  and tell me that your request is that important and urgent. I’ll be very helpful to get things done for you without delays. Anyhow, I don’t find  myself delayed anyone work so far…as promised to achieve datelines without failing it though…

Together, we achieve work-life balance!Cheers, for you and for me…

后悔还来得及吗?

September 2nd, 2008 by lovemlien

前阵子真的为了office里的人和事气煞得血压升高了不少!从来,从来没有酱讨厌过一个人; 从来,从来没有一个人可以把我气哭,很幸运的你已在我的黑名单里了!恭喜你,在接下来的日子里,就让你拭目以待,试试看本姑娘的厉害!老虎不发威,并不代表它是病猫!

我常常为了一时做错的选择而懊恼,像是买了又不穿的衣服更是多得mummy一直complain。也觉得矛盾,所以,接下来的每一次都格外小心选择。但每每还是选择了让自己,让别人后悔的决定。我不是个简单但复杂的女人!! Argh…

流汗王说我很直接,喜欢和不喜欢都会表现在脸上。:S 他笑说我是那种生气可以不顾一切生气到底的人,要找消防局来灭火后才赔不是,要不然很可能活活被烧死。我说,脾气好的我,最好不要来惹我,要不然最好穿好防弹衣来迎战!

不久前刚拒绝了一个机会。那会是怎样的一个际遇啊?偶尔想起来,还真不甘心酱就拒绝了人家…那会是个让我发达的梦想吗?心情就像玩大富翁时,等待抽取 "机会" 和 "命运" 的忐忑。无奈…但也已经没有在走回头路的可能了…还是想想看看以后要怎么走下一步棋吧!

要坚持到底,加油!加油!加油!